194 men bullied by their wives within 6 months in Lagos

The Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT) has disclosed that 194 men were assaulted by their partners in the past six months.

DSVRT provided the figure in its bi-annual report, which covers the period from January 2021 to June 2021.

The figure is 44.33 per cent higher than the 108 assault cases reported by men from January 2020 to June 2020.

According to the latest report, the DSVRT, from January 2021 to June 2021, attended to 1,329 cases involving adults.

The data shows that 1,125 of the adults, representing 85 per cent, are female while 194 (15 per cent) are male.

The data further reveals that 77 per cent of the adults are married, 11 per cent, single, seven per cent, widowed and divorced while five per cent are cohabiting.

The Coordinator of the DSVRT, Titilola Vivour-Adeniyi, said there has been a steady increase in reported cases of gender-based violence on the part of both men and women since 2014.

She, however, said that men have difficulty reporting incidents of assault by their partners largely due to cultural norms.

She said: “Patriarchy is an enemy of everybody because it keeps people in silence.

“From a young age, males are not allowed to express themselves when they are experiencing trauma, and that lingers on to adulthood.

“When a man is experiencing violence, even his fellow men mock him, and such a person will not be able to speak up.

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“With the data we are seeing, we are confident that when men are aware, they can report these incidents.

“They will be treated with empathy and professionalism and they can be encouraged to speak up and report.”

The DSVRT report revealed that, of the 1,329 adults, 1,236 were aged between 18 years and 45 years while 93 are 45 years and above.

A further breakdown of the figures shows that 954 adults reported domestic violence, 53 reported rape; and 29 reported attempts to commit rape and sexual assault.

The data also showed that 24 people reported sexual assault by penetration and threat, while 269 were for others.

The DSVRT coordinator told NAN that all the sexual violence cases had been charged to court.

“The directorate of public prosecutions has requested for the case files.

“All the cases of sexual assault by penetration are being prosecuted at the high court.

“All the cases that are sexual assaults that do not include penetration are currently being prosecuted at the magistrates’ court.

“For sexual violence, that is clear cut, because all the cases are being prosecuted.

“Domestic violence, however, is not so clear cut because not all survivors want prosecution, they want the abuse to stop,” Mrs Vivour-Adeniyi said.

The report also revealed that the top five local government areas in which the assaults were reported are Alimosho (200 cases), Ikeja (124 cases), Kosofe (123 cases), Ikorodu (115 cases), and Oshodi-Isolo (95 cases).

– NAN

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