National Leader of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, has attributed the death of his son Jide to cardiac arrest.
Tinubu revealed this in a statement he personally signed on Friday, while appreciating the condolences and goodwill messages from Nigerians to him and his family.
Senator Tinubu, who personally thanked President Muhammadu Buhari, Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, Senate President Bukola Saraki, traditional rulers, state governors, legislators, APC leaders and Nigerians, for their show of sympathy, described his son as an intelligent man, who will be missed.
He said for years, his son had lived in London, where he left behind a wife and three children, and for now, as a concerned father, he and his wife, Senator Remi Tinubu, had to live Nigeria for London, to be with their son’s family in London.
The Tinubu’s statement reads:
“We want to express our thanks and deep appreciation to all who have demonstrated their sympathy and expressed their condolences over the loss of our eldest son, Jide. I want to especially thank President Muhammadu Buhari, VP Yemi Osinbajo, the state Governors, distinguished Senators particularly Senate President Bukola Saraki, members of the House of Representatives, APC leaders and members and indeed all Nigerians. I thank the traditional rulers for their display of support.
“My son was a highly intelligent person with a vibrant personality and a zest for life. He followed his own course and made his own way on his own terms. Those who knew him could not help but like him. Yet, he was taken away by cardiac arrest when it seemed he had so much life to still live. This is a reminder that we must live each day to its best as none of us know when our last day shall be. Mortality comes upon us all. We have no choice in that but we do have a choice whether we shall be good or bad, just or unjust. Let us all strive toward the best in ourselves.
“Jide lived for so long in London and there he has left behind a darling wife and three precious boys. My wife Remi and I have gone to London to be with them at this painful time to support and help them. Please excuse our absence from Lagos for a while but it is essential that we are with them. Prayers are being offered and will continue to be offered for the repose of his soul. I have suffered a grave loss that no parent would like to bear. As a father, I must spend time putting my arms around the family he has left behind.
“We must seek a lesson in every loss. Your reaction to my son’s passing has taught me that we can be a people of profound love and humanity when we want to be. People of every tribe, region, faith and every political affiliation have expressed their sympathy and extended to me the embrace of a brother or sister. Even those who don’t agree with me politically have shown strong support and care indistinguishable from that of my associates. This says so much about the innate goodness in all of us. For no matter what, we are not foes or enemies. We are all of one human stock, a single nation, one family.
“I wish I could bring my son back but I cannot. However, what I can do is to be more caring and helpful to the living as I know this is what Jide would want to become of his passing. Let us all take a lesson from this and think a bit more about our fellow man, our neighbor, our fellow Nigeria. Let us live as we were meant to live with each other in greater peace, compassion and love. If only this can happen, I know my son will be happy.
“Again, as we are away from Lagos, we thank you for the love you have shown and ask that you not only show it to us but to each other. Please continue to pray for him wherever you are.
“Thank you, and may God bless you all.”
Meanwhile, the politician reportedly flew out of the country on Thursday even as sympathisers continued to besieged his Lagos home.
Among those who were at the Lagos home of the former governor were his political associates, businessmen and women, religious leaders, neighbours, friends, family, among others.
Others included Afenifere chieftain, Chief Ayo Adebanjo, who described the demise of Jide as a big loss, urging Tinubu to take heart.
“This is a serious matter; a lot of hope has been dashed. It is not an easy thing. Only God can console the family,” he said.
The Chief Judge of Lagos State, Justice Opeyemi Oke, wrote on the condolence register that, “it is with a great shock I received the news.”
Other sympathisers were Elder Tayo Soyode, Mr Femi Falana, delegates from Ondo State government led by the Secretary to the State Government, Mr. Ifedayo Abogunde, among others.
Former Senate President, Senator David Mark, in a message made available by his media assistant, Paul Mumeh, condoled with the family and prayed that God would replenish the soul of the departed.