Veteran Nollywood actress turned evangelist, Eucharia Anunobi, has urged women to focus on personal growth and spiritual transformation instead of depending on sexual performance to hold a man.
The actress in a video shared on her Instagram page, warned that no amount of sexual performance can make a man settle down with a woman if he does not want to.
According to her, many women believe that pleasing a man in bed is the only way to secure his love and commitment, but that belief is wrong.
Anunobi said: “Ask yourself this question. You have given him all the styles there is. You have done the ‘snake in the monkey shadow,’ you have tried the ‘mosquito in a flying saucer,’ yet the man has still not proposed. That should tell you something. Sex is not what makes a man stay with you.”
The actress, known for her controversial posts on social issues, explained that relationships and marriage go beyond the physical. She said that even if a woman gives in to all the demands of a man, it does not guarantee a wedding ring.
Quoting from the Bible, she cited Romans 12:2: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Anunobi stressed that only God has the power to change the heart of a person and make them do what is right. She noted that human efforts are limited, but divine intervention brings true change.
“It is only God that can make an individual do the right thing,” she added.